Yessss, you’ve seen me before. I don’t quit because if at first (or second or third) you don’t succeed, you try and try again until you give up and focus on becoming a rich aunt lol. If you’ve reached out before and I didn’t respond, it’s not because I didn’t see your message. It’s likely because you didn’t fit the brief, you didn’t send a tasteful photo, you didn’t put in the effort, or I simply wasn’t attracted.

I’m a tall, sharp-witted professional with an easy laugh and very dominant personality. On the flip side, I’m very nurturing and accepting. Other important factoids:

• 5’10 and very curvy. If you love softness, pillowy breasts, thick thighs, and cute lil’ rolls, you’ll be in heaven. I spin and lift regularly, so there’s muscle under this jelly.
  
• Black and proudly so. My heritage is important to me and I love doing things to uplift and support my community.
• I’m considered a beautiful woman by most standards. I mean that without any hubris. I know what I look like and I want to be up front about it.
• Words of affirmation is my strongest love language, so you can expect a lot of communication, praise, and sweet words from me, so long as you’ve been a good boy.
• My dominance leans toward soft/gentle femdom. I also value a deep, emotional connection. There’s lots of teasing, edging, slapping, rimming, pegging, cuddling, and seductive commands and phrases that’ll make your toes curl and turn your brain to incoherency. Haha, I also love manipulation if you can’t tell.
• Because I’ve had several “subs” ghost and disappear without warning, I’m very skittish and do not trust easily. It will take some time for me to believe that you are fully invested in this dynamic. Patience is necessary.
• I love reading, road trips, politics, exploring the city, films, traveling, spin classes, and spending time with friends and family. I just enjoy living life!

Here’s where I get tripped up—finding a submissive man who fits most of what I’m looking for. My preference is for handsome men who are Alpha in their public and professional lives, but submissive behind closed doors where it counts. Most importantly, I want a partner and something long term. We can take it extremely slow, but the goal is commitment to each other. My preferences:

• I have a thing for the himbo/muscular twink aesthetic. I like my men very handsome. You don’t have to be built like Captain America, but it’s imperative that I find your face attractive.
• 25-38 age range is the ideal. Hard limit.
• You must be tall. Lol I’m tall, so I’d like you to be at least 6’1 to hit the sweet spot. Will consider 5’9-5’11 depending on level of attraction.
• You MUST have good communication skills. I’ve had too many subs fail to respond in a timely fashion, or just go days without speaking or checking in with me. I won’t tolerate that. I also need you to be straightforward and honest with me about what you like and what you can handle.
  
• Fully vaccinated. This is a hard requirement.
• Good at giving head. Eating pussy is an art form and I need you to enjoy it and crave it.
• Single and interested in a long-term relationship. I am not interested in anyone who is married or in an ENM partnership. I am NOT interested in one night stands or people just passing through.
• Enjoy giving and receiving affection.
• Bonus points if you’re bisexual, since I like the idea of whoring my man out to other men for my viewing pleasure.
• A good man with a good heart, sweet spirit, and hobbies and interests outside of kink. Kink isn’t my life and I don’t want it to be the focus of yours.

Whew, if you’ve read this far, bless you! If you think you fit the bill or you’d like to throw your hat in the ring, please reach out with a well thought out message and be willing to provide evidence of what you look like. I weed messages out very easily if they’re poorly written, one sentence, overtly sexual, or generally have zero substance. I’m a very picky woman! I know what I want and I definitely know what I don’t want.

Do not take it personally if I don’t respond to your message. It doesn’t mean you aren’t a lovely person for someone else, because I’m sure you are ❤️

Thanks so much for reading, you’re such a good boy for making it all the way to the end. Here’s a teasing hint of what I look like.