I posted yesterday looking for younger men to join us at the porn theater to balance the age range that skews heavily older. I basically spent the entire day weeding through absolutely absurd messages- most were men who didn’t read my post, were in their 50s, couples outside the age range, and guys who wanted to take us on a date and then go to the porn theater as a threesome. It was… exhausting. I now fully understand why men complain about not getting laid bc they are experts at getting in their own way 😅 I was trying to plan a fun sexy outing and I had basically a bunch of hand-holding to do. Men asking me the address of the theater (as if Google doesn’t exist), asking if we could carpool, asking me to explain what the theater is like, how many men would be there… basically just doing the standard thing of expecting a ton of emotional labor from women who are ~just trying to get some anonymous dick.~ This is not my first time posting here and tbh it’s why I don’t post more frequently- because I’d like to. I would use this subreddit WAY more often if It weren’t for all this nonsense, especially the hundreds of responses from people who are not what I’ve clearly communicated I’m seeking or are too scared to actually get what they want.

But, some guys actually read my post, sent the requested photos, and didn’t accuse us of being fake or expect me to emotionally coddle them all the way to the theater lol.

We went to the porn theater last night and a handful of Reddit guys joined in. We had a great time! The porn stopped playing at some point during, and no one bothered to turn it back on because no one was watching it! Everyone who showed up was cool and respectful and it was a mutually enjoyable experience. We’ll probably do it again at some point, when I have the energy for the aforementioned messaging nonsense. !unlock and feel free to comment if you were there because I know folks in this sub have a hard time believing people like us exist and actually follow through!