Hello. I am going to try lay it all out there, so be patient with me.

I am bisexual (yes, honestly bisexual), but no one knows about it. There are a number of factors that affect that, and I would prefer not to be judged because of them (family, religion, dating a woman). I am not looking to change anything at this point, but who knows what the future holds.

I had my first 'dating' experience with a guy last year, and it didn't go well. He was younger, and very uncertain of what he wanted. Both of us were in the closet, but would still go see movies, go out to eat, and grab drinks. Just two guys hanging out. Ultimately, it ended up leaving a bad taste in my mouth.

I am a decent guy, and can carry a conversation well. I have a fairly sarcastic sense of humor, and a wide array of interests. I enjoy camping, hiking, and riding motorcycles (dirt and long-distance). I have a strong interest in music, and enjoy everything from country to western (just kidding...). Most days I am in cowboy boots, jeans, and a cap. I am self-employed, and have a flexible schedule.

I am hoping to find someone in a similar situation who is looking for the same thing. I would prefer other bisexual and discreet guys, or at least guys who are willing and able to keep it all a secret. I am not looking for romance, but an ongoing friendship where we explore our sexual interests. I am open to intimacy (cuddling on the couch, kissing, spooning in bed), but don't really picture myself slow dancing with a man. I also don't see a place where I would be comfortable with public displays of affection. If my 'guy' is in a relationship, he either has permission, or at least availability for regular fun inside/outside the bedroom. I am looking for more than quick romps...I've done that. It's somewhere between a fuck buddy and a romance. More of a true friendship with benefits.

I prefer guys who are masculine and intelligent. Physically I like guys who aren't overly hairy, somewhat clean cut looking, and in decent shape (we are all works in progress). I prefer guys 21 to 42. It would be great if you're able to carry a conversation, and open to honesty and sharing. You should have some interests in life that you like to talk about. Also, be respectful about where I am in my journey, and please do not try to pressure me to change it. Discretion is, at this point, a high priority for me, and necessary to uphold.

I am about 6'1", white, shaved head and trim beard. I have two tattoos, and no piercings. I have been told that I have a handsome smile. I weigh about 210lbs, and am working on losing some. I wear it well, though.

I understand this is a novel, and I am appreciate it if you've made it this far. If you message, please tell me about yourself, and we can take it from there.

Thanks!