Hello, I go by Bernie. I’m looking for new kink friends and (hopefully recurring) play partners interested in shibari/kinbaku, impact, and more generally for sex, all of which I’d like to practice with more people. I have a user manual on Fetlife under the name “empty-handle” that I can also share via DMs.
I currently identify as a top-leaning switch and self-suspender for rope. I top in impact with a variety of implements that are thuddy and stingy. I’m still figuring out myself when it comes to sex.
I have reliable transportation, mobile equipment for static rope suspension, and can host with some negotiation. Weeknights and weekends are best for me.
I’m happy to play with anybody of all ages, skill levels, and experience. I’m looking for people who are respectful of boundaries, clear in communication, assertive with what they want, and open to exploration. Being able to stick to schedules is a plus.
If this sounds like you, I’d love to chat. I usually prefer to meet at a munch or other public event, but I’m happy to make time to meet for coffee or tea.
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