I’m curious about people, and I like people that are curious about me. So, I am looking for an FWB that likes to talk and connect with their person - maybe over dinner and drinks, or by doing something together. Just grabbing a slice even. It increases the thrill of the hookup, to state it plainly. I’m not saying that you have to listen to my life story or hear my tale of woe- just like, I want to know who you are before whatever happens, happens. It doesn’t have to be ongoing but it should be personal. Although if we click, ongoing would be cool. And you should want to actually meet! Pen pals are cool but I want to do this.

About me: I have short hair, green eyes, and am tall and statuesque meaning fattish, haha, but I do have an hourglass shape and a cute face. I’ll exchange pics if we’re vibing. I have a stressful job helping people and I’d like to be treated nicely- there’s nothing like being seen and spoiled a little to put me in the mood. I reciprocate with the spoiling. I love making people happy.

About you: please be over 35 and hmmm. I like a solid dad bod or even a big handsome man that dresses well and likes to do stuff. Dominant in a friendly way- not a weirdo that likes to degrade people. Just, you know, comfortable taking charge when the time is right. Also, please be unattached. I’m not interested in ENM or poly. I mean S.I.N.G.L.E. Extra points if you like vintage stuff

Also, don’t send me pics of yr dick. If you don’t know how to start, you can tell me about your musical tastes (so I can silently judge you) or something you’re passionate about. That’s sexy.

My preference is for men, but I’m not completely closed off to a couple; it just depends on the vibe and my mood.

So yeah, this is getting long, so whatevs. This is my wish and I’m putting it out there into the world :-). I know you’re out there- hope to hear from you soon :-)