Mods, if this isnt allowed, apologies.

I'm the husband and my wife and I are an open couple that enjoys playing with couples and select single guys. She enjoys chatting with guys on reddit and possibly IRL meetups. But... My dudes you're making it hard on yourself.

If you send a couple or female a message make sure you have at least some profile history, and preferably some pics posted. Also, your comment history will be read. If you come across as a troll or asshole, don't expect a response. Or if you have no posts and no comments, we assume you're a troll/scam account. Get some profile history, put in a bio, and a profile pic.

Starting a message with, "I wanna fuck your pussy" will get you nowhere. Is that how you would approach a woman IRL?!?! Be respectful, introduce yourself, give a little bio about what you're looking for and what you bring to the table, and maybe toss in a tasteful compliment. Keep it light, confident, and sexy.

Also, hygiene, this is a BIG thing. Guys, make sure you're manscaping. Doesn't have to be waxed/lasered but make sure not only your junk, but body hair looks well groomed. Also, if your room looks trashy, clean it up. A messy room in the background is not a good look. Women notice that shit.

All I'm saying is if you put in a little effort it will go a long way in getting a response from a woman. Shit isn't rocket science my dudes. Best of luck out there in your naughty adventures 😉