I've been married for 11 years and the last 4 have been a dead bedroom situation. Nothing malicious or vindictive about it. Her interest in physical intimacy simply stopped. We still care about each-other and I have no plans on leaving. But my need for physical intimacy still remains. If you want to know more, you're welcome to ask.

I''m looking for pretty much any level of sexual intimacy. Could be as simple as some making out, cuddling and maybe some mutual oral/masturbation. Or we meet at your place or hotel and go all the way. I'm unable to host of course.

I prefer to get to know someone first before getting intimate. So taking it slow with some conversation, questions, get the red flags cleared and build a little bit of trust. What are your hobbies, favorite things, if you're also being discreet, why? If you're not being discreet, do you just like married guys?

I'm a big nerd personally. I like books, cycling, anime, trucks, games, fancy beers and a bunch of other stuff. If you want to start off slow by watching a movie or TV show together, or even playing some videos games. We can see how long we actually pay attention to it.

Physically I'm 6'1", 230lbs and a white guy. I have a beard. I've been tested clean and already had a vasectomy years ago. That being said, I don't mind wearing a condom and/or finishing wherever you want.

I'm looking for women interested in talking and seeing where things go. You can be single or married, your reasons for reaching out are totally fine with me. I'm pretty open minded for most things. There's no particular body type I'm for or against.

I'm open to whatever reason you have to be looking. Just needing to relieve some stress in a dry spell, you have your own DB situation and want to talk to someone about it and more, you're new to sexual intimacy or uncomfortable with it and want more experience. I'm even open to couples if they need a third. Although they'll need some patience since that would be new to me.

All good if I'm not your cup of tea, I hope you find what you're looking for. Cheers 🍻