Triannual attempt to find the perfect sub that probably doesn’t exist, but that won’t stop me because I’m a perpetual optimist!

I‘ve concluded that vanilla relationships aren’t for me and I cannot stifle my natural desire to both control and also provide a loving and nurturing environment. I need a man who worships and respects womanhood, enjoys being pliant, but is also very secure in his masculinity and submissive desires. I’ve encountered so many men who crave submission, but are ashamed of it, which ruins the entire dynamic for me. It took me a while to be confident in who I am and I seek the same in potential candidates. Buckle up, this is a long post!

What I seek:

I have a lot of preferences, but every now and then I stray from them. Overall, my inclination is for men who are dominant in their public and professional lives, but submissive behind closed doors. My preferences: * Himbos, muscle subs, and/or a twunk aesthetic. I have a bias for pretty boys who are conventionally handsome. You don’t have to be Captain America, but it’s imperative that I find your face attractive. I love having a beautiful man turn to putty in my hands. * 25-40 age range. Hard limit. I’ve found those who are younger are less dependable and stable, and those who are older likely have commitments and mindsets that conflict with what I need. * You must be tall. I’M tall and one day I’d like D1 babies, haha! I’d like you to be at least 6’1 to hit the sweet spot. Willing to accept as short as 5’9 if I find you exceptional in other areas. * You desire a relationship and not just casual sexual contact. Submission is also not just something new you want to try and then cast aside. I’m not for one night, or one week. I require a commitment to longevity. Doesn’t have to start off that serious, but know that the goal is long-term. * You must have good communication skills. I’ve had too many subs fail to respond in a timely fashion, or go days without speaking or checking in with me. I won’t tolerate that. I also need you to be straightforward and honest with me about what you like and what you can handle.
* Be on the liberal/left end of the political spectrum. * Good at giving head. Eating pussy is an art form and I need you to enjoy it and crave it. * Single. I am not interested in anyone who is married or in an ENM relationship. * Enjoy giving and receiving affection. * Bonus points if you’re bisexual. I like the idea of whoring my man out to other men for my viewing pleasure. But this isn’t a requirement. You just get extra points if you are! * A good man with a good heart, sweet spirit, and hobbies and interests outside of kink. Kink isn’t my life and I don’t want it to be the focus of yours. * My preference is for someone who lives in Austin or the state of Texas. Or someone who travels to Austin/Texas often.

About me:

I’m a tall, sharp-witted woman with an easy laugh, big smile, and a lot of southern charm! I’ve been told my height and the way I carry myself are intimidating, but I’m very nurturing and accepting, believing that everyone in this world should know kindness. Other juicy résumé items:

• 5’10 and very curvy. If you love softness with muscle, pillowy breasts, thick thighs, and cute lil’ rolls, you’ll be in heaven. I’m very active, doing spin and F45 at least 4x a week. I just love to eat. So you’re getting Amazonian, “death by Snu Snu” realness.
• Black and proudly so. My heritage is important to me and I love doing things to uplift and support my community.
• I am a very beautiful woman and I say that without any hubris. I know what I look like and it has its advantages.
• Words of affirmation is my strongest love language, so you can expect a lot of praise and sweet words from me, so long as you’ve been a good boy.
• My dominance leans toward soft/gentle femdom. I value an emotional connection that prioritizes mutual fulfillment in our relationship. I’m no stranger to mild-moderate discipline if you get out of line, but it’s always followed by aftercare. You can expect teasing, edging, slapping, rimming, pegging, JOI, cuddling, and seductive commands and phrases that’ll make your toes curl and turn your brain to mush. I’ll kiss you slowly with one hand choking you and the other snaking its way down into your pants. I adore manipulation. Open to chastity. I also enjoy the idea of having you sleep with other people I select for my viewing pleasure.
• Because I’ve been ghosted so often that I expect it, I’m skittish and do not trust easily. It will take some time for me to believe that you are fully invested in this dynamic. Patience is warranted.

Whew, if you’ve read this far, bless your lil’ heart! If you’d like to throw your hat in the ring, please reach out. I will not respond to messages that aren’t at least 250 words. Tell me a little about you, your interests, and your background. I am more likely to respond if you provide evidence of what you look like. I do not respond to messages that are short, poorly written, overtly sexual, or generally have zero substance.

Thank you so much for reading, you’re such a good boy for making it all the way to the end. Here’s your gift—a few photo hints of what mama looks like.