Hello cis females of central Texas !

Introduction

First off let me set the stage and say that i am a very happily married man . My wife is amazing . We’ve been together 18 years , married 17. I love her so much. Our love is monogamous, our sex is not.

We have reached a kind of … steady state. We’ve achieved this full mesh interlock that’s just magical. It’s also…. “boring” for lack of a needed term . I want something new / different / exciting. She totally gets it and that’s one of the many things that makes her awesome . She’s been enjoying dating some guys casually and I want to give it a shot as well.

As such, i am looking for a girlfriend. Someone I can form a relationship with and really get to know.

I am not looking for a “FWB”. I have female playmates already and they are fun . I mean, I’m not going to turn down applications for a mostly play focused companion.

About Me

• i am sapiosexual/demisexual .
• I am high IQ/EQ
• I am a mid career operations focused professional (“work” “from home” ) and the CTO/founder of a hardware startup (my main passion but somewhat neglected as of late ) (perhaps you can help me reignite my flame )
• I am classy , confident , cultured.
• I am logical / guarded and don’t trust easily
• I have very few people I consider close / true friends , many people consider me a close / true friend (friend defined as someone you tell your problems / confide in )
• dog daddy . I’m almost always with one of them at various central Austin spots
• two ears one mouth
• voracious reader and wonky podcast consumer
• i both make policy and implement it . I use my left and right brain extensively

About you

• Beautiful inside and out . True beauty comes from inside.
• Elegant , classy. Hair / nails / outfit always perfect . (I don’t even wear T-shirt’s at home ) .
• Poise and posture are important to you
• Career woman .
• Brilliant
• Deeply values your time
• Perhaps your in same situation as me ? Married happily but wanting new relationship energy ? And/or you not wanting a “full” relationship. Perhaps your “damaged” and love isn’t on the table ?

Sex stuff

Let’s discuss this one on one. It’s so partner dependent . Especially in a long term relationship.

Broadly :

• I love giving oral
• I love slow sensual exploring and love making
• I want us to be completely and totally comfortable and really get to know each others bodies and minds

I don’t think I have any limits or hard no. The sexual aspect can take many twists and turns.

Anything outside the “normal” (hand/blow job, giving/receiving oral, intercourse, light bondage play ) of really amazing intense connected sex between two “in like” consenting adults , I would probably want to discuss with my wife first and she may want to be present for .

I am usually dominant or vanilla. I would like to experience submission with the right partner.

Anyway reach out in chat and let’s get to know each other :)

Review my other posts to get an idea of my / our lifestyle activities. I’m not looking to extend lifestyle participation to include girlfriend . I joke with my wife that I need a “side piece” for a “normal” relationship :)