My wife and I are thinking of a trip to Pearl next year, because we’re not (yet?) LS but want to engage in exhibitionism, voyeurism, and maybe parallel play. So, a Desire resort seems like a no brainer.

But even though Pearl is known as the most “low key” resort, my wife HATES being pressured into “fun” activities (not talking about sex here – more like party games, dancing, etc.).

Most people in this sub seem to love that kind of stuff, but being nagged and pressured into activities would completely ruin our experience. Is there any pressure at all from the staff there to participate in activities that you don’t explicitly ask to participate in?