We will be visiting for the first time this December. We have never been to a resort like this, so we will be total newbies. We are hoping to ask a few questions before we go to get the feel of things. We are really not very experienced and so these questions might be kind of basic, but we figured we would ask now before we go. In general we are looking to have fun and are possibly interested in finding other couples to play with. We have talked about doing a soft swap (oral only) and might be interested in a full swap with the right couple. But, here are our questions before we go:

If we're doing oral only, do other couples at the resort expect/prefer condoms to be used? If she's giving a blowjob without a condom, where does the other guy usually cum? Do couples bring/show STI tests?

Sorry for all of the basic questions, but we wanted to ask before we went so we don't embarrass ourselves!