I've been doing some research and I'm interested in Trying Hedo or maybe a Desire resort for the first time with my wife. (40F)(42M)

My wife and I are not in the swinger lifestyle and have only been with each other for the 14 years we've been married. We have a good sex life, but nothing too exciting..usually never leaves the bedroom. I am definetly the one with the higher sex drive.

I'm interesting in going to an adult resort to spice things up..Get us out of the routine of daily life. Engaging physically with others would be unlikely, but being nude and risky in front of others, and watching others seems like it would be very erotic.

I brought the idead of possibility of going to a clothing optional resort up to my wife and I was immediately shot down and pretty much laughed at.

Has anyone else had a similar experience? How did you convince your significant other, if you were able r..