Ok, maybe not that many times, but I’ve gone through a lot of ghosting and unexplained disappearances with women I’ve talked to on here this year. You’d think I would be numb to the feeling of being ghosted after so many times, but no, it still stings, especially after even the slightest connection has been made. And I’d much prefer it if you weren’t 1,000 or whatever number I’m at this. year.

So, I should probably tell you a bit about me and what I’m looking for. I’m from central Iowa. I moved here a few years ago from the West Coast. I’m 42, 6’1” (if that matters), decent body, salt and pepper hair. I’m your average Joe or your neighbor kind of person. I don’t have kids. I know that’s a dealbreaker for many people, but I hope it’s not for you! I’m educated and work from home. In my free time, I enjoy traveling, reading, spending time outdoors, walking my dog, and learning new useless facts that I can dazzle people with.

I’m regrettably stuck in the dreaded dead bedroom stage. I haven’t had any physical interaction in over a year; it’s like being roommates. I miss the emotional and intellectual connections the physical connection that isn’t there in my relationship (the spark is gone). I guess that’s my way of saying I want to experience these butterfly feelings and sparks that I keep hearing about. In addition to all those things I have a kinky side that I would love to explore with a potential partner, but it isn't required, but it would be one of those “nice to have” things in a relationship.

I don’t have many “requirements”, more like “nice to haves”, which include a sense of humor and will laugh at my terrible jokes. A casual to frequent use of sarcasm, a love of learning, a horror movie fan, and someone who loves to travel and has a sense of adventure. Finally, I’m a legs guy, so smooth legs and someone who loves to wear heels would be nice. And of course, an interest in kink would be great as well.

I hope to hear back from you and get to know you!