Looking for both men and women!!

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This might be a long shot but I thought I’d post anyways. I am a 23 y/o, fat, virgin looking to be degraded. It’s not something I have ever explored with anyone so I would like some sort of buildup to it I guess? So that I don’t end up crying like a little baby and blocking you because I can’t handle it. Just to reiterate, I don’t want your first message to be “yeah u fat dirty pig ur so worthless” or a nude. I want a long term dynamic, get to know your interests, what turns you on about this kink, etc. In turn, you get to know more about me as well, maybe my insecurities, fears, embarrassing kinks and fantasies that you eventually end up using against me.

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I could see this dynamic going two ways. The first way would be a slow buildup and me turning into your fully controlled degradee. By the time you are done with me, you’d have renamed me/given me a more fitting name and pronouns (it, slave, pig, etc), have me on an masturbation schedule, make me watch porn and hypnosis (maybe even get me addicted to it), have rules, etc. I am always reminded of my worthlessness. The second way this could go is that I am somewhat of your friend who you casually degrade when you like. There are days where you are sweet, kind, and treat me like a person but there are other days where you do a 180 and tease me, belittle me, remind me of my inferiority. Maybe it’s a mix of both. I am down to listen to your ideas as well!

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I hope I am making some sort of sense. Some limits would be face pictures, anything to do with hole stretching, watersports, illegal stuff, blackmail, public stuff. I would prefer if you are experienced, older than me, and you see me as an equal outside of kink (please no actual misogynists or conservatives!). I am mostly looking into being degraded on my intelligence. Maybe my looks but that would be something we can chat about. If you are in the PNW maybe we can also explore this in real life as well. Who knows. I look forward to chatting with you! ☺️