I'm looking for an outlet to be verbally cruel to with no or few limits for what I say to you. I only use discord, and you must be 18 . No exceptions.

I want you to know some things. First, I have issues respecting consent when in a sadistic headspace. You need to be able to advocate for yourself and say no or I might do something actually abusive, and maybe that's fun for you but it's not for me. It just causes me shame, which takes me out of a dominant headspace and hurts a lot honestly. Doms need aftercare too sometimes, and that's something that might need to be talked about.

Second, I am sub-leaning and a stereotypical submissive in a lot of ways like my voice for example, but I can be very sadistic nonetheless.

Third, even though I have issues with being abusive sometimes, and at my core I do care about consent and communication. I'm working on my abusive behavior in therapy.

Fourth, I'm socially stunted so sometimes I say creepy things or I don't understand you. It feels freeing to be creepy to be honest. I isolate a lot, which is why I'm like this among other things. Be blunt and direct if you're uncomfortable (in a bad way) with something.

Fifth, I want to mix irl stuff with kink, so I want to know about what happened in your past and use it to pleasure myself.

Sixth, I'm busy but I masturbate a lot when I'm free. I want to use your mind to cum. I like having a plaything. Your brain is my sex doll in a way. I can probably poke you, manipulate you, and maybe even make you cry if we have chemistry, but I'm not used to brats. I'm willing to try out brats, but I don't do well because my insecurity or fragility or something fuels my sadism, and it's weird mixing masochism with sadism to me.

Seventh, I'm not here to control you or tell you how to masturbate or use your toys or spank yourself. I just want to talk to you in awful ways first and foremost for a long time, 24/7, sometimes in voice calls. Maybe seeing you in embarrassing poses or video calls will be fun too, but I don't like unsolicited nudes and this is not a requirement.

All of this is negotiable by the way. Feel free to send a chat with your asl, discord tag, and what drew you to my post. I'd love to talk, and possibly get to know each other ;)