Hello! I am roughly 5 feet tall, 21 years old and an petite so dont expect many curves

Oh yeah and i am bi! So both doms and dommes are most welcome

If I had to define myself, I would say I am a submissive masochist with a bratty outer crust. I'm going to lay out what I know I do in relationships and what I expect. Should make it easy for both of us.

I like to move fast. If we're here, we both know what we want, and I want to start learning from day one whether or not we are compatible in ALL aspects. Once we've established a bit of a rapport and decided we want to get to know each other, I'll most likely start lightly bratting. I want to see where the boundaries are. I want to see how far I can stretch my leash before you pull it back. Starting there, I need someone that will hold the leash tight. The more space I have, the more I misbehave. It's a flaw. Fix it.

Let's see if I can lay this next part out in a way that makes sense. I feel very confident in who I am and how people see me in my life. I like that to be torn down at home. I want you to remind me where I belong and who I belong to.

Namely, that would be you. I would fully belong to you. I am definitely looking for a TPE relationship. and I mean TPE. I want to get to the point that you are controlling the way I speak (to you and others), what I eat, if I'm allowed to spend money, everything. As much as I am a highly successful career woman, deep down I'm a silly little sub that needs daddy/sir/master/miss/mistress to tell me what to do. This requires you to be able to say no (I LOVE hearing no) and to be able to text/call often. I am needy and won't hide that, but you gain with me a fiercely loyal sub.

For as much as I brat, and play with my boundaries, deep down, making you happy is what makes me happy. I want to be perfect.

Here are some things I know I love in a D/s relationship:

Having my words controlled, such as no swearing

When I say "I mean" or "Technically" and you can HEAR I'm about to be a little brat and you interrupt me sternly

Maintenance punishments to remind me of my place

Lectures and scolding - This is a big one for me. Make me answer your scoldings properly, ask me questions you know will be hard to me to answer, make me cry.

Rules that make me better and solve problems I have. Like eating properly, going to bed, drinking water, etc.

Adding a random sentence to make sure you're paying attention: If you message me, tell me your favorite pet name to use in your first message.

Some more fun facts:

I like to be trained. Don't hold back with rules and protocols, just be patient in teaching me to perfect them.

NSFW video is something hard for me. It would take me a long time and can break a relationship if you ask for it too soon. I am typically fine with pictures and send them willingly after i trust you. ( we will start with text mainly and move on after to voice/photos)

I live in new york, and I have no idea where I want to end up, I'm open to relocation

A lot of doms say "I don't want to take out my frustrations on you." Do. It.

I have yet to have a dom reach my pain tolerance.

My kinks: impact play (spanking with hand, paddle, cable, cane, really anything on any part of my body), TPE, orgasm control (edging, denial) - I want to try long term denial (doms are bad at this, they always want me to cum because I've been "good," I feel that doesn't matter. Deny me bc it's fun), CNC, sleep play, name calling, heavy humiliation, degradation, breath play, pain play, wax play, bondage, anal, bladder control, gag, chastity, deep throat,toilet play,scat I'm sure there's some I haven't listed

My limits: incest, age play (different from regression), giving ass play (receiving is A-OK), being ignored as a punishment , race play, beastiality, blackmail, cheating

A limit that needs expanding: You cannot interfere with my job. As in, if I need to work, you cannot make a command or rule to not do that. What you can do is: force me to take breaks, play with me/tease me while I'm working, still punish me for not completing a task or punishment because of work (leniency is your choice in that situation). ( also my work is very few hours so i am mostly free always)

Ideally, you: stay up fairly late, you have a strict dom side but are experienced, know that you can be a nurturing, fun, loving dom but a very strict dom. You want an completely TPE relationship. You are free a lot of the time to give me your attention

Outside of BDSM: I like to read, workout , watch anime, do crafty things, hang out at coffee shops, book stores, and parks. I like to do outdoorsy things. I love trying new food and going out sometimes. I think I'm quite funny, but who knows honestly.

Thanks for getting through all of this. I may edit it as I think of things to add or adjust. But, if any (all) of this sounds interesting to you, please message me 🥰

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