Within the past year or so I’d say most of the people in my life, “friends” I guess have pretty much slowly stopped talking to me, inviting me out to do things etc. I’m down to about 2 friends now and they hardly message me first or ask to hangout. One of the friends I lost was a near decade long friendship. I’m starting to realize or feel like I’m the problem?

In comparison to them, there isn’t much of a difference in lifestyle. I have a job and hobbies and go out from time to time. And there was no real beef between me and them. So the clockwork on this is puzzling me. All of a sudden every few months I realize I’ve lost someone else in my life.

I know this is a self improvement sub so I guess I’m wondering how to be introspective on this or how to be a better person overall so I’m not left out and left behind in life. Pretty lonely these days.