Please respect that. If you type those words, it's pretty much an instaban. Please be aware of the rules, sensitive to the goal of the sub, and kind to each other. If people are considering leaving, there are other places they could go to get that advice. If they are here, they want support and understanding, please respect that.

Some of our community members are not in a medical or disability DB, but still need additional support because they have chosen to stay and need help coping and learning to adjust. Since we have those resources, they are also most welcome to participate here.

Please do not upvote comments that are in violation of the rules, report them. This place is much different than most other relationship subs for very good reason.

Thank you. We're sorry you need to be here, but we're happy to tell you that you're not alone. 💙