Before kids it was great . We had a very healthy sex life. Now that we have 3 not the same and I understand we don’t have the free time like we did before kids but even when we do have the time now it’s like I have to almost get mad at the fact we aren’t tearing each other’s clothes off and I want her just as much now as I did when we first met. She says that she’s isn’t a very sexual person and she is right but at least before she would initiate it .now I have to make all the moves and ask before hand if we can have sex. I do my part I’m def not a selfish lover every time and I mean every single time we have sex we start with me going down on her and making her cum. Leg shaking ass off the bed squeezing my head with her legs to the point she apologizes. And then we go weeks without anything… I don’t get it… any mothers have any input for me?? She is 32 I’m 38