So recently my wife and I celebrated our anniversary (fairly significant number). Our sex life has always been mediocre but sporadic at best. I've always kept asking for either a HJ or BJ. She doesn't enjoy oral which is the way I get the most pleasure. I've learned to be content with 3 BJ and 1 HJ in the last 11 years but but this past week she confessed she hates giving HJ too. She says her jaw gets too tired so both are off limits moving forward. If the sex was constant I'd be more inclined to focus on contentment. However we barely have sex every 4-6 months if that. To top it off she yells constantly and is usually miserable. Although when she is nice she is fairly nice. I should probably mention she expects to receive oral consistently when we do have sex. Am I asking for too much? Is a HJ or BH an unreasonable request? Especially when she is on her period, I'd love some affection but I stopped asking YEARS ago as I know the answer is no.