Just opened up to my Better half about wanting more sex....or at least just ... some. I was honest about my now nerves get around sex as we hardly ever have it. We used to be so involved with each other but nowadays I'm not talking once a week, I'm taking I'm lucky if I might get a fumble a year (not even a birthday BJ🤣😭).

We have 2 kids and a lovely life but no sex life. I now get nervous when she shows me a bit of attention because I think.... I'm in here.... My heart starts beating faster, my soldier jumps to attention, I start imagining how this encounter will go down, FYI it hardly ever does go down, something always comes up....

We have a great life outside of the bedroom, do I just need to suck it up and make peace with the lack of intimacy for the sake of a great family life? Could she be finding comfort somewhere else? ( I don't think so, she wouldn't have the time)

I just want to feel like I'm wanted for more than paying the bills, looking after kids and sorting the house 🤷🤦....

TL,DR Hardly get any sex otherwise a great home life. Don't really know what to do..... Have asked about it and had the response of just not in the mood. Or not on the same page sexually as me....? (Used to have lots of affection now hardly anything).

Don't even know what I'm expecting in response, thanks for reading. ✌️