So we’ve started having sex more often, but she just feels so cold towards me, and for the last 3 weeks I’ve had nightmares of her cheating( she cheated a year before we got married)married for 13yrs now), there is absolutely no evidence that she’s cheating except that we only have sex when she wants it, and when I want it there’s some kind lol f excuse to not have it. Work has been extremely rough on me lately and there’s been a few nights where she showed interest in my needs and on those nights I literally asked her to spoon me and tell me everything’s going to be ok. And she wouldn’t do it, I feel like I’m gonna have another mental break down soon. I’m not suicidal so that’s not an issue, but I am depressed that I can’t even get my wife to just hold me in my darkest of times, I’m just lost guys, sex is better(still no foreplay), but now the emotional support part is gone, feels like I just can’t win any more. I’m don’t need advice because I know I was stupid to give her the second chance years ago, and if it weren’t for that second chance I wouldn’t have my son, I guess I just need some positive motivation. For myself, not the marriage,