So today we went to therapy. It also was the 3 month anniversary of our last sexually intimate act and that was one of only two times in the previous 7 months. Come to find out one of the things she has not shared is that my “anatomy” is one of the issues. (It’s too big, uncomfortable and so she doesn’t get pleasure), She had not said anything because she thought there’s nothing I can do about it so it would just be hurtful to me. So here we are. 19 years in and she hasn’t told me this? I know certain laptop s are worse but I also know there certainly ways to make this better and oh, so we can’t be passionate and intimate because intercourse isn’t great in two poisons??? Sorry for the rant but for fucks sake, this can’t be all it is. 🤦🏼‍♂️