Hey everyone!

My 42F wife and I 36M have been together for 11 years, married 8. It’s been a difficult marriage, so far we’ve made it to still live together. For the past 6 to 8 months it’s been a dead bedroom. We’ve grown apart, there’s zero intimacy, it’s like we are roommates, and add two kids to the mix.

My needs both emotional and physical haven’t been met in a very long time. I’ve tried talking to her, walking around naked, being hard around her, but nothing. On the emotional side, it’s even less.

I’ve gotten to the point, where I need to find someone to talk to, and feel that closeness with. Divorcing right now is Not an option sadly, separating well…financially it’s just impossible due to rent prices etc.

I’m in a such a bad place, that it really sucks. Oh and add that my libido is super super high, makes it even worst!

Anyways, thanks for reading and hearing my rant!