So the DB is really starting to get to me. The place I work I have 2 jobs, a chef in the morning and then an after school program in the afternoon, and I help out at the restaurant my wife works at. Here lately it's been getting a little stressful, my kitchen jobs are ok but the kids are just burning me out. But when I get home I would love a stress relief but it's been 60 day tomorrow since we last had sex. Go back 60 days and I had a vasectomy so I had asked for sex before I went in, which she agreed, the last time we had sex before that I lost count of the days.

But the real question is Am I wrong to ask my wife if I could and should find sex from someone else, like just a friend with benefits? I'm not a bad looking guy, not the hottest but enough to get hit on and flirted with on a regular.

Has anyone else had an arrangement like this? Did it work? Is it a bad idea? Please help me.