You can’t really negotiate a sexual compromise, can you? I would like it every week, she acts like she could do without altogether. The 3-5 times a year probably is her compromise. If it was upped to once a month I’m sure it would be lackluster to say the least. She’d just lay there like a corpse and make me feel dirty. I’m better off masturbating. How the fuck can we go from a very satisfying sex life to THIS? Say two people love riding roller coasters together for years then one day she says they now give her motion sickness. So if she gives up roller coasters that means I can’t ride them anymore? But I still enjoy them! I bought us season passes. I’m not allowed that thrill? I can’t talk about wanting to go to the amusement park with you ? I can’t go with a friend that likes to ride? Oh I can watch a video of other people on a coaster but only if you’re not home. Sounds fair.