Hello all,

I made a post a few days ago about how I felt kind of trapped in my marriage as after two years of marriage and three years of dating I finally truly realized that my libido is exponentially higher then my wifes and how that is negatively affecting me.

Not sure if I fit in here but lots of people recommended I come here.

The tldr is we are having sex 1-2 a month and I need at least 4-5x that ideally more. I also am incredibly kinky and her "dirtiest" kink is letting me finger her finally. I have tried everything from subtle hints to direct conversations about how I need more. She is somewhat receptive to these but at the end of the day its hard for her to increase because she just doesn't have nearly the same libido level as me.

So just looking for advice I guess. My other post I got everything from people saying I'm a nut job and should sterilize myself to others advocating divorce immediately. Some suggested cheating or open marriage as well. I just feel very lost because I still love her as much as ever but I've finally realized that this part of my needs to be satisfied as well.

Thanks