I got my sex drive back from getting off birth control. The past year I have put a huge effort into asking my partner for Sex. And he says yes 99% of the time. However from the past 3 years when I was LL he is a bit scarred from the rejection. We are in an open relationship so he was having sex with his other partners instead of me for awhile. Has anyone been in this place? Is there anything I can do to help my partner ask me for Sex as well? For awhile we had sex like once every 2 months and that was with me asking him for Sex. When we first started dating it was 5-7 times a day, basically until Our genitals hurt and we could no longer. For my age I have the least Sex of my friends. But I’ve become okay with that, I just miss the passion, and him asking me for Sex.