My bf (24m) and I (24f) fooled around a little last night, and by that I mean I did all the work to get him off, then he rolled tf over. I tried to let him know that I would appreciate a little reciprocation, he ended up getting so upset he got out of bed and it started an argument. He told me that I shouldn't pressure him into things and basically made it sound like I was trying to coerce him, which was not the case! I just wanted to get off too, and now I'm frustrated af and upset at the implication that I was trying to force him to do anything. ETA: I did initiate last night and he was totally into it until I mentioned that I wanted some pleasure too. Then he went off about how I made him feel like sex was all I wanted, and saying I was trying to force him, which I wasn't? It's kinda made me not really wanna do much with him ever again because that honestly makes me feel so gross, like he doesn't ever want to sleep with me and like Everytime we do anything I'll be worried about this.