So my situation is a bit different now. Before I thought I had the typical male LL partner. But now I have a MTF trans partner. That comes with a whole host of other issues. But when it comes to sex specifically, it’s like I have to completely forget the person I knew and the sex I had with them.

Now I have no problem with toys/diverting from standard PIV. But admittedly I currently feel a lot more like a supportive friend than a romantic partner.

So since I’ve been in the process of deciding whether or not I want to stay in this relationship - how many of you deeply regret holding out hope that you and your partner would have a decent sex life?