I'm an HLF in my 20s. My bf is the LL in the relationship. When we first got together he told me his sex drive was so high he would like sex 3x a day just to feel satiated. He told me he wanted me every single day whenever he saw me. He said he wanted to ravage me constantly. I was thrilled because one of the reasons my last relationship ended was because of a DB. I told him I was the exact same way, that I LOVED sex, that I could never get enough and was down 24/7 unless I was gravely ill (and maybe even then lol).

Look...I know most people embellish stuff when they're first trying to woo the other person. I get it. The issue is that his incredibly high sex drive (or the one I thought he had) was a huge reason I was excited about us getting together. Of course I love him and I decided to date him for a plethora of reasons but yeah I'll admit it: I was really looking forward to tons of sex with my hot new partner.

What's the reality now? Well it's a Saturday night. He's been sound asleep for around 3 hours and I've been on/off crying re-reading our old text messages where he would sext and flirt with me every chance he got. I understand the NRE and the need to look good for a potential partner but...for the love of god, can people think about what they're saying before they make promises they can't keep?