First post here (and reddit in general). My friends told me that I may be able to get advice from people that are not invested at all in either of us so here it goes... I have been in a relationship for almost 6 years with a woman that I truly love. However, she has absolutely no interest in me sexually for the past few years. In the past, she always said that it was because of her hysterectomy few years back or that's she's not comfortable with her body (she's drop dead gorgeous, btw). With that being said, she had an online (texts, calls, vid chat, etc.) affair with a former porn star. After that blowout, we decided that if we were going to work, both of us had changes to make. I had to do more around the house and pay for more. She was to be more intimate and faithful. That's all. I have kept my end of the bargain and then some. We have had sex once in 6 months and she made me feel like it was a chore to her. I have no idea about the faithful part, to be honest but I have my doubts. Anyway, I am looking for tips on how to possibly get things going again in the bedroom. I'm all out of ideas. Thanks in advance.