And the amount of confidence I had lost and have subsequently regained is shocking me. The women I'm talking to who find me to be attractive or even hot is astonishing. I'm finding I'm far more capable in the bedroom than I ever have myself credit for.

It's also astonishing to me how many women want to just have sex and keep it simple. Granted, I do want a relationship and I certainly hope to find that soon as I thrive the most in that scenario, but I certainly don't mind the ability to have sex and fun with these women who are interested strictly in that. It's been interesting buying condoms again as I thought that stage was done, but I'm secretly excited that it's not lol.

If you're married or in a dead bedroom and are hesitant to leave... Don't be... I'm 34 and was in one for 8 years and 10 months out of the 9 years of my relationship... And while I hold no animosity, anger or hard feelings towards my soon to be ex wife... And thankfully she doesn't hold any towards me because the "pressure" is off of her... I'm so glad I made this decision... The fear of leaving was so much more powerful than actually leaving.

And the confidence I'm regaining... Holy shit.