Been with my guy for almost 17 years now. Obviously in the beginning first several years we had a lot of sex and experimented with lots of things from anal, deep throat, vibrators, and variety of positions. But of course things kind of just settled into simple. Doggy style is both something we enjoy. We have a toddler and found our sex life was compromised. And now we are getting back on the sex boat however my partner is stating he wishes to have more freaky sex, however he wont explain it to me what exactly he wants and says it would just ruin it. I know he wants me to dress up sexy and wear high thigh highs etc etc, I have just some weight to lose since having a baby and feel quite insecure wearing sexy underwear for the time being but I have been working out and hopefully around the corner I will feel a bit better about that in that aspect. But besides underwear, what does freaky really mean? I really hate having to pretend to be a contortionist and practice all these split kind of sex positions, personally they are stupid and uncomfortable for me. I am down for doggy or being on top or using furniture to help assist in positions but oddly enough I feel like that's what he is looking for is some sort of weird ass positions sex. What else is considered "freaky"? Like screaming fuck me? Over and over? Grabbing hair? Spanking? All this stupid shit that I thought we got out of the way in our sex life together after this long. I need some help here. What other "freaky" sex is out there? He claims it's not bondage. I mean we have tried to whole blind fold thing in the past, I guess I could pull that out of my pocket again. But really. What is freaky sex other than what I have already stated?