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I just found a text from my LL boyfriend (m48). I've been away from my phone for a few days since he requested that we spend less time together. Taking time to sort out how I feel and what I'm ready to do about it.
He said he hopes I'm not mad at him for this request, but losing interest in sex and affection and time together is just a normal thing that happens in relationships and I shouldn't take it personally, He's just being "a normal guy" and this is just "what always happens with men and women"
Guys.... is losing interest in sex, kissing, affection, and time together "normal" for guys after only 8 months in an otherwise happy relationship?
It's not normal. Especially not after 8 months. Even if he had seasonal depression, he would still like hugs. So either he is building new relationships on the side and just wants to keep you as his fallback relationship, or he is just too much of a coward to make a clean break and is distancing himself slowly, for you to make the decision. It sucks either way. It's so not normal and his explanation is just BS.
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