HL or not, women are different from men. If PIV might be enough for men, it's not that way for women. What men consider foreplay is a part of sex for many of us. We need maybe 5-20 minutes from not thinking at all about it, to getting aroused enough. Depends on the woman and the situation. So even if I am HLF, a sexy environment, vibe, kissing, flirting, good smell, great aesthetics/visuals can arouse me way before we even lose our clothes. Not every woman can orgasm through PIV. Not because she can't, but because she hasn't found the right guy to help her get there. So making sure she has at least one orgasm through whatever works for her (oral, G-Spot fingering, nipple play) ensures her getting drenched and making sex way more exciting. And don't worry, we can cum more than once during sex. Like others said a HLF is not squeamish. She enjoys talking and having sex. She likes to give and receive oral And she most likely knows how to masturbate and use toys for her pleasure, to release stress. Because she needs that daily. No matter how often she gets sex. Enjoying porn or body fluids might be different from woman to woman and their cultural/religious upbringing. Also depending on their age. Sex is so taboo in most cultures, that overwriting all these DON'Ts takes time. To answer your questions: since I am on HRT. Needing multiple times daily.