I am 53. I have been married for 28 years. I love my husband dearly but when I lost my hormones during menopause I had zero sex drive. I was scared it was gone forever. I honestly felt like I would be fine if I never had sex again. I started thinking maybe my husband should find someone else.

But when I got on a HIGH dose of both estrogen and testosterone my libido came roaring back. I have a higher libido than my husband now. We are having sex 5-6 days a week. My husband is loving it.

Ladies: join the r/trt_females or r/menopause and learn about hormone replacement. Gentlemen: please talk to your wife about hormones. At first I was given tiny doses of hormones and they did not help. I think as we get older we need much higher doses than when we were younger. But we can get our libidos back. We can have amazing sex again. Here's to a Sexy New Year!

Edit to add: I use injections for both estrogen and testosterone. The creams, gels, and patches were not enough to get my levels up high. Most docs give you just a tiny bit. For online clinics in the US try: Dr. Saya at Defy, Dr. Sawma at Elevate, and Dr. Clark at Aspire Rejuvenation.