I’m married male married to low libido wife. Am I the only one having to pleasure yourself when your partner isn’t around, sleeping? Or does anyone take care of yourself in shower cause you have exhausted the sex talk, you tired of rejection or wife. It’s been over 5 yrs of sex maybe 12 times or less a year. I’m a carrying and loving spouse. Bread winner by a lot, non drinker or smoker and I’m in good health. I feel guilty and when I joke about it thinking she would react she just takes it as “aww babe” and keeps it going. Why do I feel guilty about self pleasure in a marriage. It’s like cheating. But I also didn’t sign up for a celibacy marriage. Any thoughts.