My wife(29) and I (30) have been married for 10 years next month. Slowly but surely our sex life has all but disappeared and all the intimacy with it. She comes up with every excuse in the book not to have any physical contact with me. Whether it's because I have some stubble so she won't kiss me, I then shave and she still won't, or it's because it took me too long to get the kids asleep and she's tired. I do 90% of the work around the house on top of being an Active Duty Marine. She won't even hold my hand anymore. We havent had sex in 4 months and it was 3 before that. Last night she agreed to share a shower with me and got out in 6 mins (I timed it) and wouldn't even look at me. I tell her daily that I love her and she doesn't even say it back anymore. I dread climbing into.bed with her because I feel more alone next to her then when I'm actually by myself. Other than the no intimacy we have a good marriage and whenever I bring it up she gets angry and says that's all I want is sex. I just want to.feel close to her again.