I wouldn’t say it’s completely dead bedroom. But we have gone from every other night to weekends to Saturday AM sex at best. Sunday night my wife said, let’s make things fun. Let’s pick a night and have fun. Play a sex game. I was so excited. We picked tonight. During the day I started building the anticipation telling her how sexy she is. Stuff like we used to. She asked me to stop on my way home for family errands. Not a big deal. When I got home, there was evidence of her using her vibrator. She doesn’t talk about using it, I know she uses it and she knows I know. But it is never mentioned. But the big deal here is. When she uses it, we have never had sex the same day. I played it off like I didn’t know. Made some comments. Her response, just because we are playing an adult game, doesn’t mean we are having sex. Since then she has been complaint about being tired and not feeling great. I am not ready to be rejected again.