So I bring up howe and my wife haven't been connecting lately and how we need to be more intimate with each other. We both work ALOT and it does get tiring some times. But there still needs to be room for intimacy of sky kind. So I tell her the lack of intimacy even the slightest touch isnt sitting well with me and then I asked her how I could help. She's be going through a kind of shift lately and I suggested to her we get out go hiking like she loves to do. Or go watch the birds in the woods. She totally flipped and said things like why didn't I bring this up before you ambushed me with this, I feel so attacked, so in and so forth. Now it's my fault and I can't even talk my WIFE how I'm feeling about or situation. I'm telling you, it's becoming harder and harder not to have a side. Of leave altogether.