Nothing new to everyone who post here this is just my story. I (43m) I’ve been married 15 years together 18 years with my wife (38f). Our sex life was always good sometimes great. After our last child was born almost 10 years ago it started to decline but nothing to be worried about.

Over the past probably four years though it’s gone from declining to dead. I try, numerous times per week. I will flirt with her openly. I will touch her openly. Usually all that happens if I get eye rolls or yelled at.

In the past year, she has told me that it’s because she’s going through perimenopause, and she has no desire for sex. I can’t even tell you the last time she touched my penis or even attempted to give me a blow job. I think the last time we had sex, was August. And before that was probably April. And before that was probably last Thanksgiving.

I think I’ve come to the conclusion that I just need a girlfriend, someone in the same type of situation. Because right now I just don’t know where else to go.