Honestly reading through some of these stories scare me

It's not dead yet...yet.

Married for a few months, sex was maybe fortnightly but now the space between is getting bigger.

Three kids down, early nights. We're childless by 8pm, she doesn't work just the school runs and shopping. Hardly cleans and I'm 'in charge' of the kitchen cleanliness.

Now it goes between maybe 2 weeks to a month without anything which absolutely kills me and I feel like it's getting worse. All out friends are adventurous having risky sex all over, actually playing with eachother not like me when I can't even get a HJ. I'm so active I want it here there and everywhere, didn't even have sex on our wedding night because she got so pissed.

I don't know what's happening and my jealousy of others is eating me alive, I love my wife but my validation is six foot under, don't even really hug much anymore, it's like she's lost interest me in and shagging me because she feels bad

I don't want sex to be a chore for her but I feel like I'm being selfish asking 🤷

Before I met her my sex life was insane and she knew that, just dwindled and now worse after marriage.

Just a rant really I suppose delete if not allowed.