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I’m a 40 yo HLM and I’ve been married to my 37 yo LLF for 3 years. It’s been a dead bedroom ever since we got married. I love her and care about her and give her the world(vacations, jewelry, etc) even though I barely get anything from her. But she doesn’t fulfill my sexual needs even when I literally beg and plead. The thought of sex with me seems to just repulse her. She states that she feels too exhausted from work and life in general and gets annoyed when I try to help her. I’m starting to resent her.
Before I met my wife, I was friends with benefits with a girl that fulfilled all of my sexual needs. She would be spontaneous and go above and beyond. She wanted to make me happy in all areas. She cared about me, gave me gifts on birthdays, gave me meaningful things on the anniversary of my mother’s death. I’ll admit I never gave her anything in return. She was a good girl but I wasn’t in love with her or had those feelings. I know she did though.
I just feel like I picked the wrong girl and now I’m paying for it.
Wow you def picked the wrong girl lol.
Oh also, I hope the fwb girl is with someone who truly loves her and values what she has to offer since you didn’t see it. I also hope she’s getting her back blown out every night lol. 😄
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Yes, give the energy she gives you!