I've seen many of you with similar issues. Thought I'd share my experience. It's not just the lack of intimacy that gets me. It's the TEASING that never leads to anything. My partner will often do things like playfully shake her butt or rub her butt against me, kiss on my neck, even nibble on my neck or ear. But anytime I try to initiate anything, I get met with excuses. "I would, but it's getting late." or "I'm really tired." or "I have a headache." or "It hasn't been that long."

Like, of course I stay sexually frustrated. But why add on to it with the teasing? I've gotten to a point where I don't even really react when she playfully does these things. I know it won't lead to anything, so why pretend like it will? Sometimes she notices this and says something along the lines of, "don't you like what you see?", to which I'll reply something along the lines of "of course I do, I just know it's all look and no touch." She says comments like this make her feel bad, but fuck man. It feels like that most of the time. For the record, our bedroom isn't completely dead, it just is not near as frequent as I'd like. If it's a good month, we'll do the deed maybe twice a month. Usually once a month. Sometimes not at all. I know some of you have it way worse, and I can't imagine being in your all's positions. I just really hope my situation doesn't get worse.