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I got nothing for 5 years. No kissing, not seeing her nude, no showing together, no oral, could not go down on her. She would never even sleep nude.
Now she wants sex, wants me to get her off, wants me to kiss her, but I don’t want to. We made out with tongue for the first time in 3 or 4 years yesterday and I felt nothing. It use to be my favorite thing.
After years of getting nothing I don’t really see her as an intimate partner. Honestly I would rather just watch porn to get off then have sex with her.
Is it possible to become attracted to someone again after a half decade of neglect?
Keep in mind when you wanted her and she wouldn't respond it made you frustrated. Now the roles are reversed, so you might consider that fact. Not saying its easy but she's finally doing what you wanted, so I'd do my best to get my head into the game.
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