Me 31HLM and my wife LL27 had spent best part of two years in a dead bedroom, once a month sometimes then a spell of 8 months without.

I finally left, yes we share a house and yes we have kids. I’m from the UK so I think it’s a little less brutal divorcing on finances compared to America.

Anyways, after countless of talks and plenty of reasoning and trying to rebuild slowly and being patient. She just said she couldn’t get the urge back.

Well from what I have heard she’s been pretty much on a spree, the town I am from is small and apparently she’s been very generous with pictures and videos, talking about linking up with guys.

So for anyone thinking the partner just hasn’t got the urge and it’s not you, maybe learn from my story