Ok, here goes. So the wife and I have been married for a bit over half a decade. We both have our issues (im adhd/autistic she's bipolar and a narcissist by her own admission) as any couple does i suppose. We used to have a fairly good bedroom life, she would initiate and enjoy herself, etc. I've had some bedroom issues in the past that have been mostly resolved (thanks little blue pill!) and my libedo has picked up over the past year or so (coinciding with the start of the pills). I had thought that she wanted more intimacy, but after really thinking and remembering how the past 3 or 4 years have been, I realize that she hasn't actually participated much in the bedroom in a long time. What I mean by that is, she will lay there and orgasm. Thats it. I have to do all the work, there's never any new positioning ( if I try to switch it up something is said), and she hasn't made me orgasm in over 2 years. Our home life has progressively gotten worse, not so much fighting as me being blamed for everything that doesn't get done or goes wrong. We don't have foreplay any more, she doesn't seem to want to kiss or touch on me, and its to the point where I'm feeling very neglected and ignored at home. I dont really have many friends or hobbies anymore, as they always seem to cause issues between us (friends and hobbies both take my attention away from her- her words, not mine). I dont know what to do to rekindle the spark we once had, and I dont know that she even wants things to change. It just sucks feeling like an extra set piece in my own house, or like I'm just another toy she keeps in her nightstand. Just had to get it off my chest