So I just want to say thank you to all who replied and reached out to my original post. It meant so much to me during that confusing and crazy time. Even those who didn’t say the nicest things about me. It made me think about my actions in it all.

So the update is she’s in another state living with her sister. Her sister is happy about things but does think my wife had a mental breakdown of some kind even though my wife has claimed she hasn’t.

On the legal side things are moving along and my wife (or I guess ex) hasn’t made anything difficult and is signing away to everything. I will have custody of the kids, she’s waved her rights to any thing financially of me and just wants to live her life.

I guess some can say this is a win situation or the best situation but to me it still fills like a painful experience that will take time to recover from.

I’m going to work on me. Get in some better shape and focus on the kids.

Again thank you all.