My partner (31LLF) bought a 1000 piece puzzle a while back. I (30HLM) started it with her kids the other day and her and I have been doing little bits on it since.

Yesterday I walked past her in jeans and she cat called me, I told her perhaps she should back up her sound with actions and she gave me a look and said “maybe later”. This had happened before so I didn’t get my hopes up and left it at that.

Later on in the day she puts a prescription in for birth control. Again, she does this a lot and we have only taken advantage of her being on it once this year. She’s doing the puzzle so I grab her hand and lead her into the bedroom. We start kissing and fall onto the bed and lay there for a little bit kissing. I start caressing her thigh as we kiss and turn things up a notch but I don’t get a response from her. I ask her if she wants to get back and do the puzzle and she says yes. I say that I take it she no longer wants to do anything and she says no not tonight.

I should have known better and knew that her maybe meant a no and that her cat call meant nothing